No one is born a DIFFICULT PERSON. Everyone was born as a child of God. You only become a difficult person because of your LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES. These circumstances might have hurt you and gave you extraordinary pain that you can’t forget, thus making you a HURT PERSON with unresolved issues/problems.
Because your still HURT, you tend to do things unconsciously:
1. Hurting people hurt other people.
– When other people hurt you, pause and ask, why did that person hurt you?
– Hurt people have unresolve issues/problems that are haven’t healed yet, thus, they will continue to hurt other people
2. Hurting people hurt easily
– They tend to think that people are hurting them.
– They easily judge that others are hurting them because they are already hurt – there is hurt to begin with. They are often confused. They thought that someone is hurting them but the truth is, what they’re feeling is what was already there and is only triggered by the recent minor event that took place.You remain a HURT PERSON because you refused to recognize it, you refuse to admit it, you’re INDENIAL!
If you want to HEAL, ADMIT IT! RECOGNIZE IT! and GET HELP! You can’t do it on your own; you need someone to be with you, guide you, mentor you.
*dying*