Many people have chosen to define the LGBT community on how its members deviate from the norm, largely to include asexuals and aromantics (even the cis hetero ones). Although not a new definition, the reason was new. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move. Let me explain why this is a bad move, as succinctly as I can. Which, if you follow my blog, is asking for a lot from me.